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Beyond Bonking!  Cont...

What do you think the implications of all this is for casual sex?

Let’s list some of them.
• All those guys and girls out there screwing around with anyone who will ‘do it’ are giving away little bits of their souls in every sexual encounter they have. No wonder so many sexually promiscuous kids and adults in time end up very wounded, confused and unhappy people.
• Rush into bed with a girl where the only thing you have in common is your shared desire to have sex, and before you know it you will begin to weave a soul connection to her. You might both be determined to keep it ‘sex only’. You can’t. Your souls will start their weaving despite your best efforts. The big danger is that before you know it you are ‘connected’ to a person you have very little in common with and with whom you only wanted a brief sexual fling. So when the inevitable occurs and you break up, guess what happens? You both end up really hurt and torn apart inside as your soul weaving is ripped away. This is the explanation behind the expression ‘suffering a broken heart’. To be more accurate, it is suffering a torn soul.

Next (and guys, this is really important)

As a general rule females are far more intuitively aware of the power of ‘sexual soul connection’ than your average horny guy. In fact, most guys haven’t a clue in this area, they are more likely to be led around solely by their dicks! This explains why girls are far less likely to want ‘casual sex’ before there is any sort of real relationship with a guy.

A girl is programmed to know (even though she may have no conscious understanding of it) that in opening wide her legs to have sex, she is also opening wide the deepest part of her being. This is why most girls are generally slower to rush into sexual relationship than guys are. They are far more protective of what they are likely to call their hearts – as well as very aware that it is they who could be left literally ‘carrying the baby’! This is a great protection for us guys so don’t knock it. And don’t you dare ever use the old lie ‘I love you’ just to get a girl into bed. This is nothing but a very nasty form of sexual abuse.

The fact that God has made women in this way explains why they are so traumatised if they are raped. Think about it. The major part of the woman’s trauma is not just that she was physically entered and violated. It is something far more important that was violated – her deepest sacred centre, her soul.


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