When a couple finds a strong attraction beginning to form between them, what is it that they hunger to do most of all? You’ve got it, they want to have sex, and more sex and sex as often as possible. If they do begin a sexual relationship then what will happen is that they will over time begin to weave a strong soul connection with one another. The coming together of penis and vagina in intercourse is much more than a purely physical thing. It is the beginning of the interweaving of two souls.

If the couple keeps their sexual relationship going the chances are they are going to end up, for good or ill, strongly ‘soul connected’. The time this takes varies. It can happen quite quickly, perhaps in as little as a couple of weeks, or it may take several months.

I am not, by the way, saying that couples can’t fall deeply in love and have a real soul connection without having sex. Clearly many couples married in the past, and some still do today, not having had sex until they were formally married.

What I am saying is that the weaving of souls caused through sex is expressly designed by God to help create the special connection and closeness that will provide a solid basis for, hopefully, a life-long relationship together.